Stop guessing
who's worth
your time.
FlagMyDM analyzes dating conversations and helps you spot red flags, green flags, match potential, and what to say next.
This is already helping people
"I stopped wasting time on the wrong people instantly."
Jordan, 27
"It actually told me what I was ignoring."
Priya, 24
"I wish I had this months ago."
Alex, 31
Clarity in three steps.
Upload or paste
Drop in a screenshot or paste your conversation.
AI analyzes
Our model reads tone, effort, intent, and signals.
Get clarity
See match score, flags, and what to say next.
Everything you need to read the room.
Match Score
Instantly see how compatible the conversation really is.
Red Flag Detection
Catch the patterns you'd rather not admit you saw.
Green Flag Detection
Notice the small signs of real, consistent interest.
Smart Replies
Get suggested responses tuned to the moment.
Top 5 Matches
See which conversations actually deserve your energy.
Weekly Clarity Score
Track how clear your dating life is week by week.
Momentum Tracking
Know when a conversation is heating up — or fading.
Conversation Insights
Deep AI breakdowns of tone, intent, and effort.
See it in action.
A real conversation, decoded in seconds.
Dating is confusing enough.
FlagMyDM helps you stop overthinking and start seeing conversations clearly.
Stop wasting time
Avoid mixed signals
See real effort
Feel more confident
You stay in control.
FlagMyDM only analyzes conversations you choose to share. The app does not automatically access your messages.
Ready to stop
guessing?
Get instant clarity on every conversation. Download FlagMyDM on iOS.